When talking about their business

When talking about their business, most solo-preneurs make the mistake of describing exactly what they do, in boring detail. "My company has been in business for X number of years and we use the newest technology systems. We use a complicated series of... blah blah blah." Many coaches and consultants talk about coaching ad nauseam, "What is coaching, are you coachable, what is your coachability index, who is the coach, blah blah blah".

I know, because I did it too in the beginning and it didn't work.

Hate to say this, but... SO WHAT! Nobody cares! When I hear someone talk to their prospects this way, it sends up a big red flag for me: these people don't really KNOW what they DO for clients and they're losing potential clients every time they open their mouths and every time someone reads their materials! The problem is that they're clearly not connected enough to their client base to see what real benefits they bring their clients.

There's a saying that goes "People don't care how much you know, until they know how much you care." And until you can tell someone what's in it for THEM to work with you, they won't pay attention to you or what you're saying.

Now, there's nothing wrong with you if you've been doing this, but it's something that you'll want to work on quickly so you don't let any more ideal prospects slip through your fingers. It just takes asking yourself what you really DO for clients, what results and benefits you get for them and then to articulate that so that a prospective client looking for that solution will want to work with YOU.